July 16th, 2016
You are not in Euclid’s world of squares, circles and triangles but you could, with some effort, build cubes, spheres or pyramids to move into. In a three dimensional world you are a location in space that can move or change over time as a task; a continuous action to support a story (in this case a move to a different location). In a four dimensional world all possible versions of you are in a state of being somewhere in time with your attention preference to the one you are participating in now. Move your attention to a version of you being at a different time spot and you discover a refreshed you now but not quite the same you or same now. Einstein and Minkowdki presented this concept 100 years ago. And more fun, if at the “end of the day” you don’t measure up as having been present at some point during the day (a particle) you are perhaps just a disturbance and don’t count as valid (a wave). The shadow of you producing no demonstration. I don’t teach geometry, calculus or physics but I do shadow and attention retreats.
Is daily life for you about what you are doing, what you did or what you need to do? Are you too tired to keep up the pace or feel abandoned? Are you over stimulated most the time and struggling with threshold? The parameters of three dimensional space—somewhere else will be better. But every move diminishes our limited supply of resources and time. The promise is that we will get a reward in the end—when we get to the absolute right location. Did you get your ticket to heaven punched? In a three dimensional world each location may be uniquely different but change is the only “absolute.” Why, because once a location is defined (mine) it becomes objectified and entropy begins. Have you noticed systems, structures, organization and even folks wearing down? I still do some consulting but I’m retired.
Can you move into the fourth dimension and discover a time for you to be? I just gave you a clue; I’m retired. If you learn to secure the reaction to past and the expectation of future you may step into any time expression of you. Anchor a time as home and not a location; you keep the familiar form of you but alter the perception. You will need to learn to value a moment instead of a location or an object that represents a location. Our history does not support this process. Our language semantics does not provide direction. Our intuition guides us to familiar—it feels safer. We need to trust discovery instead of knowledge, preference attention over distraction, be present full time for life and define those special moments as attainable (but perhaps not repeatable) and an enriching element for a happy life. I do retreats on securing time distractions and improving your ability to pool resources for time value.
Next year I may start a series of online chats, say once a month, to present some of these concepts. If you have an interest in making a change, with time instead of location, please e-mail me: firstname.lastname@example.org.
June 27th, 2016
Last year in the Fall of 2015, Deborah and I, along with a dear friend, made a six week pilgrimage to India. I was not very inspired with the trip proposal at first due to all the cautions for tourism in India but I’m glad I had the opportunity and enjoyed the experience. What I appreciate in travel is food, architecture and culture. I do enjoy all the interactions with locals and time spend with friends but you don’t need to venture so far away to find those encounters. Ill health from food quality aside, the flavors of Indian cuisine were exotic, the architecture outstanding (although mostly British) and the culture more passive than I have ever witnessed anywhere in the world. All the magnificent colors and gracious people were the trip highlights but the bonus was quality time spent with my wife and our friend.
Armed with the desire to continue with the theme of quality time traveling together; Deborah and I planned a trip this year to Nova Scotia, Canada. Another six plus weeks encompassing a road trip through twenty three states and four Canadian Provinces. We did city excursions in every major city, all the major tourist sites and a nine day bus expedition in Nova Scotia. The sites were breathtaking and all the architecture superb but most everywhere congested. Meals with friends and relatives along the itinerary were all scrumptious. We have departed from dining in corporate restaurant chains due to what we perceive as a overall drop in the quality and we never indulge in fast foods. Every evening in the hotel rooms we examined reviews of the next day’s find for an exquisite local eatery. The resort style hotels often offered eloquent dinning and they were all good, some exceptional and all pricey. One “steak house” next to one of our hotel picks had three vegetable side dishes on their menu and we sampled the entire selection; only $5.50 each. The first was bok choy, small portion but hot and tasty—followed by an offering of broccoli that was barely warm and five undercooked asparagus with limp bacon bounding them. We are spoiled from living in the Pacific northwest; we only experienced two places while traveling that offered organic produce and one served grass fed beef. Most of the restaurants offered potatoes as their only vegetable adjunct to their salad selections.
Most of the meals were a mixed bag; from delightful to pathetic. Most of our fellow travelers, likewise, were somewhere in the range of “healthy” in appearance to very overweight and physically not fit. Perhaps this sample was a product of our focus of travel on tourist locations frequented by retired or older folks. I’m not attempting to be unfairly critical; I am part of the retired older folk set. The unhealthy food options are congruent with predominance on the overweight and unfit condition of the group observed. This is not a tactless blog called “my summer vacation” but an invitation to envision a larger representation to what just got reported. What if culture, our human group guidance, was suggesting a change in values and a shift to a different state of being? Should we abandon the old standards and all the tasks to update it (none of which worked) and discover how to integrate into this new epoch? Nothing we knew or know could be of assistance. To engage in this era you need to raise your bar with a new sense of values, become passionate and disciplined in this endeavor and share your enthusiasm. Creation is not the act of becoming but the act of being.
May 23rd, 2016
We are retired and on vacation which yields lots of time for reflection. I have posted over one hundred blogs since Deborah and I stepped down from operating a “spiritual” center in Southern California. I have lots of questions about the content of what I have blogged and why I have blogged about what appears a wide unconnected array of topics. I believe I have answered all those inquires personally but at this point it might be appropriate to generate a blog review to clarify the array of topics presented. A style I developed from facilitating classes for many years is to present concepts and allow the students to find their own conclusions. These conclusion mature and change frequently as the students develops in potential and cognition. If you present the material as a collection of fragments or pieces it is simpler for the students to refine one small chunk at a time and connect the bits later when they have developed the bandwidth to support a larger span (vision).
When you were birthed family gave you a name and a story or role. If you learned the meaning of the word “no” and could secure that concept in your life as a demonstration (walk your talk) you gained greatly from the childhood coaching. As a young adult if you could be done with the drama of youth and redefine your role in life as a productive adult and a member of a community with a realized potential to contribute as a family unit and a professional you have implemented securing done. If you didn’t get it at first your life will fall apart on some or many levels until you become skilled with the concept of done with past drama. Old story is done and you now get to create a new story and a new life. This level of success in life is greater than luck (random) but being redundant with the past story offers nothing. Securing “no” and “done” are essential steps before you may fully realize a new potential or create a new story for you.
Securing “no” and “done” is not difficult but we get distracted critiquing our story and testing it as a valid truth, a respectable presentation and/or a peaceful solution. These three tests are demanded by our cultural guidance meme; I would imagine an effort to enforce its guidance standard (tasteful, correct, fashionable, appropriate, etc.). Finding someone to take your side or which side to be on does not offer autonomy. People that take sides are stuck in a belief (I believe I’m right) and have not secured done. And frequently structure or rules are an attempt to compensate for not having a secure no.
Instead, validate your new definition by securing the concept of “we”—a plural “I”—as an authentic sample of human but a variation unique to you. If you can entrain, that is accept someone’s presence without your bias, you will discover in a few moments a flow of energy independently up through both your bodies. The flow of energy that is creating you both, now. Is creation not a valid act? May take a little practice and even some instruction if any of this is important to you. Enjoy the blogs.
April 27th, 2016
We define objects that we encounter in life by our reaction to them. Our reaction may include size, weight, location, density and any other perceivable attribute that we associate with the objects. This is an attempt to make the objects consistent, predictable and thus real even thou cognitively we understand that nothing is really as stable as we perceive it to be. We report our reactions with phrases like: look out for the low ceiling, watch your step, this is heavy, the table is too big, this shirt is too small, etc. We often layer this reaction template on other humans as in: she is overweight, he is very tall, they are loud and obnoxious, etc. We accept these perceptions as truth and call them reality.
Any point of reference is just a point within a range of possible points. We may believe “our point” is absolute or the true correct perception but all that is only a preference. A larger sample in agreement weighs a preference but it is still just a point in a range. Zoomed in on a range we may see our point as truth but if you allow the range to broaden you discover choice. Truth is a point in a range of possible that we fully identify with as our true preference—only a choice. When the range becomes greater than our span of attention we are forced to choose a point and a period of time to attend. This step leads to new levels of discernment and the possibility that our truth may just be a limitation of possible and nothing more. With new levels of discernment we can pick a reference point that is useful now and that is the nature of what we call respect. If the range expands more we may feel the overwhelm and filter out the extra stimulus. With the focus on the most familiar we gain an unchallenged perspective that is very peaceful. Culture is a designed guiding system that offers truth, respect, and/or peace. This does offer a relationship to the flow of reactions by wise choices and perfect timing but this level of conscious attention feels like a lot of effort and tons of deadlines (familiar to some).
Author A. Miller, in his famous psychology paper “7 plus or minus two” , recommends that we attend to the stimulus instead of the reaction. If you pause for a moment and attend to the stimulus, options start to be revealed. Attention to your reaction reveals only urgency because its draw on time is limited by a shallow perception of value—no solution. What if a stimulus was an opportunity to select a different state of being? Be someone different and not the same person defined by the same reaction. The new state of you would emanate from the inspiration of discovery and you would be living the solution.
We cannot avoid our learned reactions but we can pause and move our focus of attention to the stimulus. It will take some practice to identify the stimulus and hold our attention on it until it starts to reveal and inspire. Habit is our strongest distraction and the results predictable—objectified life is the drama of objects bumping into other objects. Saying no to taking events personal is difficult but conscious attendance to what triggered the events offers a refresh to the personal and the creation of a new you now. Welcome to the act of creation.
March 26th, 2016
When you are in reaction to anything you lose the power to imagine it a different way. When you are not aware, not present for an event, you lack the vote to experience the moment differently. A rote response does not require you to wake-up and assess the event you are experiencing. We conserve energy and recall an experience from our past that is similar to our present experience and play the re-run. We do such a great job that we may even invoke emotion and movement and yet never fully wake-up. You may have talked to someone and later remember meeting them but fail to recall the content of the conversation. You in fact store the encounter as a locational reference and not as content in a discussion. Like “day-dreaming” or wandering around in a trance, this human state is titled the shadow; only the shadow of your presence. The shadow is a space without your energy presence, or at least an adequate flow of energy.
I suspect that we harbor this trance or day-dreaming state because it may be a possible “useful” maneuver to de-program an undesirable learned response. We like to avoid work, accountability, and any other form of discipline to generate a desired change. It is possible you create the shadow state as a way to turn off a learned reaction. The shadow is what we blame for not being present but in that space we escape reaction and we may trust the shadow for that duty—nothing there is created or reacted to. You convert a learned reaction-to- an-event into a reaction to nothing. The shadow is where we dump stuff we are done with and by design in the shadow it will not be transformed into anything else.
The consequences from not responding to a stimulus could be substantial but with interpersonal events most of the time we “write-off” non-responsiveness from both friends and strangers; at least for a time within existential patterns (i.e., duration, frequency, tempo, proximity, intensity). Have you ever been queried by a parent or someone of authority as to your reason for your performance? There were occasions I stood silent starring into space, thinking (my story) it wiser to be silent than my normal cavalier response. With other occurrences I questioned why I didn’t react to an event. In my mind, I would normally act in a somewhat predictable way to certain events or stimulus. A few instances I was rewarded later with the insight that such a reaction would not have been appropriate in that incident but rarely were such insights forthcoming. Is this another automatic tool for our maturing process?
Still, the prevalent experience of being in a shadow state is a product of our bottleneck issue with short term memory. We get so over stimulated that we lose the reference for us in the experience along with the conscious managing input. “We” fail because there is no conscious personal self to direct our action and, on the surface, it seems like a very poor design piece. Or is this a demonstration of wisdom in design—we need training and discipline to be present, attention to be accountable and maturity to act appropriate instead of “familiar.” I invite you to reflect in meditation and explore your design potentials.
March 11th, 2016
Kathy Peterman of Portland, OR has a great new service for women that I highly recommend. She has titled it “My Best Year” and has combined her skill with webinars and on line conversations to accomplish for participants the opportunity for their best year. Kathy is a friend and long time student and she privileged me with an invitation to join her in one of the recent webinars. Below is a link to that talk and Kathy’s site is at the link above. At her site click on the “project” pictures to find information on how to create your best year.
February 26th, 2016
Have you ever implemented a plan you had vested hours in just to have it go wrong? Usually the plan is lacking in information or not enough time in the strategy stage. Wise to search out all relevant data and resources before orchestrating a next step. I know, time is usually the problem but “trial and error” is a big waste of time. After we have all the attainable data we need to spend adequate time with deliberation. Yes, dealing again with that wisp of passing time. We are all aware of the commitment if we are anticipating a successful outcome for our events. This is perhaps why we are fond of our stories about instant inspirations, mysterious intuitive hits or unsought champions that come to our rescue. This is a clue for the method I discovered years ago and use.
This most everyday process of managing life and its outcomes reeks of effort—especially the word deliberation. I reframed the term and steps as “revealing.” I have prepared and presented over two hundred workshops, wrote seven training programs and taught over a thousand classes. I just enjoyed attending to a subject until all the data magically appeared and the necessary resources revealed. Doesn’t that sound easy and fun? As the plans unfolded I discovered the purpose, focus, and approach for presentation. Yes, I took all the credit and taunted the “long hours I spent over a hot computer” preparing the material. Truth is, it was all great fun and I have learned a new respect for time.
The time in the universe is based on movement of planets (or decaying radioactive material) and it seldom accommodates human requirements for feelings and movements at a human metabolic rate. Human health depends on this along with success for human endeavors. To ignore this organic time requirement and attempting to expedite a project based on external universe time is a set-up for failure. And the bonus for attending to the proper time to initiate an event is that the justification for any time adjustment is also usually revealed.
At first I struggled with this process and made many changes in scheduling. I knew that any novel approach called for some mixture of additional courage, patience and/or trust. I switched from scheduling events three months out to one year and the need for calendar adjustments vanished. This was a big leap of faith but I don’t believe humans were designed to be perfect. You may get stuck for a short time but please—pause—attend to the “time” that stuck you. Attention always reveals and you will discover. Dedicate yourself to discovering how to live and work at your time. Enough for this time.
January 21st, 2016
How many times have you seen or heard the phrase “go to the light”? What is at the light?
Did you know that somewhere in South India over 2,000 years ago a “holy man” in meditation discovered a light somewhere external and labeled it the absolute moment of creation? He marked it in external time somewhere past because he had no awareness of the light out of trance. The foundation of religious stories to date—the presence of an absolute. Also created the need for a past and future.
How many times have you seen or heard the phrase “I know I’m here for a special reason”? Obviously, we humans reserve the task to discover “value.”
I teach that a human is a design produced by references in space (compressed nothing—no value). We map movement and sensory data in form and personality in mind. Our sense of individuality indicates unique personal mapping. Individual development to be functional would require independent time and some type of guideline structure or direction for movement. What if there were markers or a “flow” along the path for the first few to discover? The rest of us follow well. This concept is called a meme and the gravity of it tugs on us all.
The universe and everything in it evolves. Change is evident. What doesn’t change becomes existent. This affects humankind as a group; because of the conscious of self piece, we are afforded the privilege to develop at independent rates. Not sure if some force holds our group accountable to keep pace but the memes set the tempo and direction for movement.
Infinity reflects on the size of the container. Infinity for a one gallon container would be one gallon. What would be infinity for any human potential if we, the space designers, could continue to update the container or allow our assessment to mature (reveal)?
What we attend to reveals, at a pace, all that is contained within it. We can reassemble the pieces and produce both a re-framed whole and a different demonstration (healing). We can move any subjective concepts and a few not so heavy objective chunks. Bump into a box often and we move it out of the way. May we move the pretense of “the time” for the light of creation out of the past and into the moment now? Leave it external but reference it in a far more useful way. Do you recall the design pattern that incorporates proximity, frequency, duration, intensity or tempo? We could have a new fun game.
The above is what I call a stream and the nature of advanced work. Not advanced as superior but advanced as a “larger view of potential.” The above is a list of assertions in the objective world but the subjective world is all assertions. Potential is unknown but asserted possible. Not for everyone but the level I choice to teach at post retired.
December 25th, 2015
Thirty days in India was most certainly an adventure. India is a “two star” country and if you believe you purchased any higher level of service you either feel disappointed or “ripped-off”. The people are very open and warm but the country is very dirty and polluted. High population density, crazy road and foot traffic conditions, low quality food and intense air pollution in all the cities we visited. The countryside was breathtaking, but, again, no infrastructure to dispose of trash. All the businesses were very professional and honest but burdened with antiquated paper work and poor un-craftsman repairs. I was impressed that anything worked but the India people are very industrious and hard working. This report sounds like an oxymoron but is that not the nature, if you understand Spiral Dynamics, of the move from the blue meme to orange. I would not consider a return visit but I had fun and enjoyed contact with all the folks I encountered in India.
I got asked often if our reason for the trip was spiritual. Not sure how most folks define spiritual but I assume they are focused on the great spiritual tradition. Once a powerful training for awakened states but what I witnessed during the trip was a very commercial enterprise today. I cannot comment on the teachings but I would never return to any of the centers I visited.
The true spiritual value for me was to visit the country that implemented the concept of “absolute”. The oldest record of a “0” being used is from Indian roots. Our math and computer science would be lost without the place holder. And the marked absolute moment of time—creation occurred the moment Vishnu awoke—concept of an absolute is the base for most all religions. Creation being at an absolute moment in time past producing an absolute power or being and an absolute truth. To engage in what is often called the blue or religious meme you need to polarize truth and lies; right and wrong; good and bad; and be prepared to judge anyone that doesn’t accept your assessment (meme membership). You would also need to account for your past from creation until present and produce a future to map your path to the one polarized truth. Sounds like a lot of work but we have all been there and done that.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Can you envision moving this “absolute moment” to the moment in time now? Imagine, that would make creation now and your life a creation and not an effort. You could drop your Facebook page and your Christmas card list. You would discover your future as a process of creating one day at a time. What would a life feel like without a past to justify and a future to chase? Big questions to look at but if you do anything rash you will get judged. But we are already being judged. Have fun.
November 22nd, 2015
I doubt if there is such a thing as absolute time; like absolute truth it would simply be a bias. The absolute act of creation would need to be void of time and truth. There is an expression of time in our universe that is based on movement of planets or perhaps updated now to decaying radioactive material (still movement of stuff). But in the human package the marker for time is metabolic and not the same for every person. To be healthy you need to honor the internal clock in your body but to be externally accepted you may need to show up on time. The imbalance between the demand from the internal human clock for wellness and the demand from the external clock of accountability is labeled stress. Not easy to find a balance when our judge is in the external world.
In 1882 philosopher E.R. Clay introduced the term specious present for the duration of time a state of consciousness is experienced as being in the present. William James defined the specious present to be “the prototype of all conceived times…the short duration of which we are immediately and incessantly sensible”. David Eagleman and his research lab inform us that different types of sensory data (auditory, tactile, visual, etc.) are processed in the brain at different speeds. The brain learns to overcome these speed disparities to create a temporally unified representation of the external world. The brain coordinates among different senses and sensory modalities. To get events time-wise the brain may need to wait for the slowest information to arrive. The disadvantage here is pushing perception into the past. The tenth-of-a-second window may be the smallest delay that allows higher areas of the brain to account for the delays created in the system while still operating near the border of the present. I don’t believe life revolves around the function of the brain but its mapping is a great marker.
Emotions also change our perception of time. When in awe by an insight or an immense perceptual vastness the perception of time slows down. When we entrain or just “hang out” with a person that is incredibly slower in any way our internal clock may slow down. A threatening situation may increase the internal clock rate and time perception may speed up as body temperature rises, and slow down as body temperature lowers. Lots of variables affect our perception of time.
We know that the experience of life occurs in the present moment. Any past event may be remembered but it is an “object” and not an experience even if it invokes emotion. Same may be said for perception of anticipated future events. The power to change, choose or direct an experience requires that you be present (conscious and aware). Our internal clock is far from consistent and therefore being present now may be a state of being and not a perception of time. I invite you to spend some time with this idea.